Being "bad at math"

Our second grade daughter came home from school one day, and uttered that dreaded phrase “I’m bad at math.”  With all of the parental compassion I could muster, I replied “then get good at it.”  My husband and I elaborated on how to “get good at it,” and decided to focus on the two things that seemed to trip her up.  We focused on: 1) Monitoring that she was taking her time and 2) Monitoring that she had checked her work.  A few days later, she came home proudly announcing “I got a hundred on my math test!”  We replied “Awesome!  Why did you get a hundred on your math test?”  She replied, “Because, I took my time!”  We continued, “And?”  “And, because, I checked my work!”  We high-fived, and continued the discussion focusing on the effectiveness of her effort toward getting good at math.  Today, our little girl is in junior high, and continues to love and excel in math.

 

Alright, on to the bigger issue.  I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard that statement “I’m bad at math” from prospective teacher candidates.  Occasionally I’ll even hear that dreaded statement from practicing teachers.  I’ve even let my response slip out a few times during teacher candidate advisement meetings, “then, for the sake of your future students, get good at it.”  Their underlying assumption is that math is an entirely innate set of skills assigned at birth.  Let me share what should not be a secret.  Nobody is born being able to do long division.  Within our culture, we tend to put way too much stock in individual preferences and innate abilities.  And as long as we treat mathematics as something that is innately ascribed to a select few, then we’ll never understand the importance of our active role in the process of becoming “good at it.”  Mathematics is something that with enough effort, kids can get good at.  And, it ought to be an exploration of relevant understandings and skills that takes some effort to figure out.  We ought to teach and encourage the need for that effort.  As long as we treat mathematics as “you either have the math gene, or you don’t,” we won’t be able to support children in developing their own mathematical problem solving and reasoning skills.  Children, and the adults who teach them, need to really believe that being good at math is attainable with enough effort.  So, it really comes down to our own acquired and learned beliefs about mathematics.  Are you bad at math?  Then get good at it!

 

Research behind Self Efficacy and the power of placing emphasis on effort vs. innate ability is further explored in The Language-Rich Classroom, pp 70-77.

 

Persida and William Himmele are the authors of Total Participation Techniques: Making every student an active learner, and The Language-Rich Classroom: A research-based framework for teaching English language learners.  Both books are published through ASCD, and according to their moms, are “brilliantly written, must-have resources for every teacher.  People should totally buy at least 20 copies of each!”

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  • One more thing: The problem with your AP Calculus seems to be more of a matter of the teacher not being able to reach you in a whole group setting. You might have been better served by having your questions addressed individually while others were working, or in a small group focus lesson, rather than be subjected to mounting tension and frustration in front of all your peers. You were in AP Calculus. You had obviously gotten good at it. That should have been celebrated, and your questions welcomed. But, because it sounds like a lot of concentrated time was being placed on you, working individually with you might have been a better approach. You would then have been able to talk through your reasoning. And, you may think you were the only one struggling, but I'm guessing that it was a case of your being the only one brave enough to ask questions.
    Persida_Himmele1, 3 weeks ago | Flag
  • Thanks Anna. This blog is written to adult educators about a pervasive mentality that negatively affects students' views of themselves as learners. I'm not suggesting that teachers dismiss student struggles with a flippant "get good at it." When I told my daughter "get good at it," I followed it up with brainstorming and helping her think through "the how." I really believed that she could get good at it, and I wasn't giving her a choice. Even with the teacher candidates I talk to, I am there to help, and we brainstorm the HOW of getting good at it. But, there is a danger in commiserating with children with statements like "I'm bad at math." It's described in the blog. And, unfortunately I think the disclaimer that you added might get lost in the message. As for my being "mathematically inclined? I use the Khan Academy (free videos) when my daughter needs help. So, I take my own advice and get good at it.
    Persida_Himmele1, 3 weeks ago | Flag
  • I am guessing you are of the more mathmatically inclined "subset"? I see no harm in teachers relating with many of their students by sharing they are "bad at math" as long as they couple it with, "and hey, look, we can still figure it out even if it takes a little more time and effort!" I was used to being the last one to grasp concepts in math, all the way up through AP Calculus my senior year in high school. I wish my math teachers had been "bad at math" so that they could understand and identify with the struggles of the non-mathematically inclined. I could sense some of my teacher's impatience or annoyance when I didn't get things after the first explanation or two (or more) regardless how much harder I worked than most of my other classmates. If you really understood what it's like to not have a mathematical mind, you would encourage teachers to use this to relate to and encourage student with similar struggles. My own challenges with math help me relate to my students with various learning disabilities. It's OK to be "bad at math." But it's not an excuse for not learning it! I think that is a better message than "get good at it." Trivializing such struggles is a slap in the face for those that have genuine mathematical challenges not for lack of effort.
    Anna_Centuolo, 4 weeks ago | Flag
  • Thanks for sharing Amy! I appreciate your perspective as a practicing math teacher. I think some of the biggest battles that we face, in terms of improving math and science, are within the prevailing mindsets. Again, thanks for sharing! Anyone else...?
    Persida_Himmele1, 4 weeks ago | Flag
  • Your blog has touched on one of my pet peeves! I am a high school math teacher and I cannot tell you how many times parents "excuse" their child's poor performance in my class by saying, "I was never good at math either." I've also heard it from colleagues in other disciplines. I appreciate that you are encouraging teachers and teacher candidates to "get good at it". Math is not for an elite few, but is accessible to anyone willing to put in the time and effort to practice!
    Amy_Thomas, 4 weeks ago | Flag

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